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BeCool HS

Teaches high school students impulse control, empathy, and self-awareness through Assertion Training. Students learn to recognize aggressive (HOT), passive (COLD), and assertive (COOL) responses to conflict situations.

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BeCool High School
13+
Age Group
45+
Hours of Instruction
Live Action
Format
Standards Alignment
ASCA Mindsets & Behaviors 10
CASEL SEL Framework 5
IEP Goal Domains 5
National Health Education Standards 1
National Sexuality Education Standards 2
ASCA Mindsets & Behaviors — Aligned Standards
ASCA-M1 Belief in Development of Whole Self
ASCA-M2 Sense of Acceptance, Respect, Support & Inclusion
ASCA-SMS2 Self-Discipline & Self-Control
ASCA-SMS7 Effective Coping Skills
ASCA-SS1 Effective Communication
ASCA-SS2 Positive & Supportive Relationships
ASCA-SS4 Empathy
ASCA-SS5 Ethical Decision-Making
ASCA-SS6 Effective Collaboration
ASCA-SS9 Social Maturity & Appropriate Behaviors
CASEL SEL Framework — Aligned Standards
CASEL-SA Self-Awareness
CASEL-SM Self-Management
CASEL-SOA Social Awareness
CASEL-RS Relationship Skills
CASEL-RDM Responsible Decision-Making
IEP Goal Domains — Aligned Standards
IEP-SOCIAL Social Skills
IEP-COMM Communication
IEP-BEHAV Behavior/Self-Regulation
IEP-EMPATHY Empathy & Perspective-Taking
IEP-CONFLICT Conflict Resolution
National Health Education Standards — Aligned Standards
NHES-4 Interpersonal Communication
National Sexuality Education Standards — Aligned Standards
NSES-IV Interpersonal Violence Prevention
NSES-ID Identity & Self-Awareness
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What It's About

High school can be a challenging time for students, particularly when it comes to managing conflicts. Teasing, criticism, anger, and bullying can lead to devastating outcomes that can impact a student\u2019s self-esteem and overall well-being.

That is why the BeCool High School program was designed to help students cope with these challenges while maintaining their dignity and respect. Through peer video modeling, students watch age-matched peers demonstrate HOT, COLD, and COOL responses to real-world provocations\u2014then debrief what worked and why. This approach resonates with older students because the scenarios feel genuine, not scripted.

By teaching students effective conflict management strategies, the program can help promote healthier relationships, increased self-esteem, and better overall outcomes. The video-based lessons feel authentic because students see people their own age navigating the exact pressures they face every day\u2014from hallway confrontations to social media drama and workplace-readiness situations.

With four comprehensive modules and teacher\u2019s guides, the program offers everything that educators need to teach these essential life skills. Each guide includes discussion prompts, role-play activities, and reproducible handouts. BeCool High School is available as a standalone license or as part of the Stanfield+ subscription (99/yr for your school\u2019s full digital library).

This curriculum is presented in a relaxed, child-friendly format that makes it accessible for even the youngest students.

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What You'll Learn

This program addresses four classes of difficult behaviors that students may encounter: Criticism, Teasing, Bullying, Anger/Others, and Anger/Self.

Through video scenarios, the program teaches students how to respond appropriately when faced with intimidating or manipulative individuals. Students will learn how to navigate difficult situations by modeling three different responses: HOT (blowing up), COLD (giving up), and COOL (being in control).

The program emphasizes the positive outcomes of the \u201cbeing in control\u201d response while contrasting them with the negative consequences of the other two responses.

The program also uses icons to symbolize COLD, HOT, and COOL responses, helping students to remember and apply what they have learned.

BeCool teaches self-control in managing conflicts that arise in everyday situations, like sharing, keeping promises, and handling frustration. With over 20 specific assertive techniques to cope with conflict, the BeCool program gives students practical tools to minimize stress and protect their self-esteem. Using the self-defense coping strategies presented in this program, your students can learn how to minimize the effects of conflicts that arise in everyday situations.

Another powerful tool that BeCool utilizes to empower students is peer video modeling. This technique has been shown to be highly effective in teaching students conflict management skills. Video modeling involves using video demonstrations that show students what to do when confronted with difficult behaviors and then providing opportunities to practice those skills.

The BeCool Paradigm is research-based and proven to be effective in teaching students conflict management skills. Rather than just focusing on violence prevention, which often overlooks subtle or less obvious types of conflicts, the BeCool program emphasizes coping strategies applicable in everyday situations. The program equips students with a range of coping strategies, whether dealing with stressful situations at home or work after graduating.

Module 1: Teasing

Teasing is a tricky subject, especially among students who engage in it daily. The module aims to teach students how to differentiate between friendly teasing and hurtful teasing. It also gives them a variety of cool responses to deal with it. Your students will love this module because of its interactive nature and real-life scenarios.

Module 2: Anger

Anger is an emotion we all experience at some point in our lives. However, how we respond to that anger is what sets us apart. The module aims to teach students about the negative effects of hot or cold responses to anger. It uses age-appropriate vignettes to show the different outcomes of each response.

Module 3: Criticism

Criticism is something we all have to deal with in our lives, but not everyone knows how to cope with it. The module aims to teach students about the negative consequences of responding to criticism in passive or aggressive ways. It also provides them with techniques for coping in a cool way.

Module 4: Bullying

Bullying is a prevalent issue in schools, and sometimes students do not understand why people bully others. The module aims to teach students a new perspective on bullying and why people do it. It also teaches them to recognize dangerous bullies and how to deal with them appropriately.

Students will feel empowered as they put these concepts into practice and start seeing positive results in their relationships.

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In Conclusion

If you are looking for a program that delivers an education tailored to your students\u2019 needs, one that provides a safe and nurturing environment, and produces confident, capable graduates, the BeCool High School program is the perfect fit.

Students who complete this program demonstrate qualities of grit, determination, confidence, and ethical behavior. They know how to resolve conflicts in a way that not only reduces problematic behaviors, but also reduces the likelihood of similar conflicts arising again.

Teachers who have implemented BeCool High School report that the peer video modeling approach resonates strongly with older students\u2014because the scenarios feel real, not scripted, students are more willing to engage with the material and practice the COOL response in their own lives. The result is a calmer school climate and stronger peer relationships.

Our approach to learning is not just about academic performance\u2014it is also about developing a well-rounded student who can succeed in life. That is our promise to you. BeCool High School is available as a standalone license or through the Stanfield+ subscription (99/yr), which unlocks the entire Stanfield digital library for your school.

The skills learned are designed to be lifelong assets, aiding students in feeling secure and connected throughout their educational journey and beyond.

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What's Inside

45+ Hours of Instruction

15 units
Part 1 — 5 activities
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Understanding Teasing
Discuss and answer the following questions!
2
Coping with Teasing
Today we are going to meet Eddy and some of his friends who are bowling. When Eddy's friends start teasing him, Eddy models three different ways to ha...
3
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
5
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
Part 2 — 4 activities
1
"Changing The Subject"
We're going to meet Jason, a stock clerk, who works in a shoe store. Larry and Jack are salesmen in the shoe shop and are teasing him. We will see Jas...
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
Part 3 — 4 activities
1
Ask To Stop
Today we are going to meet Maria and some of her friends who tease her about her clothes. Maria models the COLD, HOT and COOL ways of responding to te...
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
Part 1 — 5 activities
1
Understanding Anger
Discuss and answer the following questions!
2
Coping With Anger
Today we are going to meet Greg and his roommate, Mike. Mike discovers Greg has eaten his lunch and gets angry. Mike has a right to be angry, Greg a...
3
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
5
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Diffuse / Talk it Over
Today we are going to meet Mark and his girlfriend Judy. Judy is angry at Mark but he really didn't do anything wrong. Let's watch how Mark handles Ju...
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Discussion
Discuss and answer the following questions!
2
Take A Break
Today we are going to meet Sandy who does something that makes her friend Lori very angry with her. What are the different ways we have been learning...
3
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
5
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Leave/Get Help
Today we are going to see another woman who faces someone very angry with her. Instead of suggesting "Taking A Break" she's going to "Leave and Get H...
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Understanding Criticism
Discuss and answer the following questions!
2
Coping With Criticism
Today we are going to meet Janet and her two roommates. One of her roommates criticizes her for grooming herself in the living room. The criticism is...
3
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
5
The COOL Response
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Ask To Clarify / Accept
Today we are going to meet Bob and his woodshop teacher, Mr. Woods. When Bob turns in his assignment, Mr. Woods criticizes him for not doing it right....
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Object to Hurtful Criticism
Today we are going to meet Vicki and her mother who criticizes Vicki's hair, her dress, her schoolwork, and her choice of boyfriends. Vicki's mother m...
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Explain Your Side
We are going to see Hector at work in a fast-food restaurant. Hector has got a big problem and its name is Sgt. Fry, his boss! He criticizes Hector wi...
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Understanding Bullying
Discuss and answer the following questions!
2
Coping with Bullying
Today we are going to meet Donald and his friend Chip. They run into a potential problem when they approach some bullies on the steps at school. Deal...
3
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
5
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Ignore / Proceed
Today, we are going to meet Danny who is late for class and is having a hard time remembering his locker number. Randy and Steve come over and begin t...
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
1
Stand Your Ground
Today we are going to meet Josh and Frank riding on the bus. Everything is fine until Frank, the neighborhood bully, gets on. Josh has got a real prob...
2
The COLD Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
3
The HOT Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
4
The COOL Response
Discuss and answer the following questions!
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Frequently Asked Questions

What age group is BeCool High School designed for?

BeCool High School is designed for students ages 13+, including those with intellectual disabilities, autism spectrum disorder, learning disabilities, and emotional/behavioral needs. The content uses video modeling with real-life scenarios that work across ability levels.

What materials are included with BeCool High School?

The program includes 18 lessons with approximately 3 Hrs of video content. Each lesson includes streaming video content, a comprehensive digital teacher's guide with step-by-step instructions, printable student worksheets, discussion activities, and assessment tools. All materials are accessible from any browser.

Is BeCool High School included in a Stanfield subscription?

Yes. BeCool High School is included in Stanfield+ ($999/year for the full 60+ program library). Both plans include a 30-day free trial with no credit card required.

What standards does BeCool High School align to?

BeCool High School aligns to CASEL Social-Emotional Learning standards, ASCA Mindsets & Behaviors, and IEP Goal Domains. Standards alignment documentation is available for every lesson to support compliance and IEP planning.

Can I use BeCool High School on a smartboard or projector?

Yes. All Stanfield programs stream from any browser — smartboards, projectors, Chromebooks, tablets, or any internet-connected device. The entire library is also closed-captioned for accessibility.

How does BeCool High School handle conflict resolution differently than other programs?

BeCool High School uses Stanfield's signature video modeling approach — students watch real scenarios where characters demonstrate both ineffective and effective responses to conflict. This "see it, then do it" method helps students internalize appropriate responses before they face real situations.

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